How to Talk to Girls- Things not to say on a first date

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So that big day is coming! Many guy think they know what they’re doing but actually have no idea how to talk to girls the right way.

Your first date with someone new. Whether you have been dating regularly or are just getting back in the game there are some things you just shouldn’t talk about on the first date for fear of the other person running out in the middle of desert scared of you.

Talk about your future

This one should go without saying but for some people it needs saying. It’s fine to talk about your next date if it seems the person is interested. There are some things though such as your wedding and what your kids will look like should go unsaid. If you are really interested in the person it’s okay to think about it, it just shouldn’t be said.

Only talk about yourself

Talking about your career or the major factors of your life is fine, just don’t only talk about you. You want the other person to feel like you’re interested in them. Not that you are more interested in yourself than anyone else. Ask your date questions about them

Talk about only your good qualities

It’s important to not just talk about your fantastic qualities but also a bit about your lesser qualities. Don’t if course go into all your terrible qualities but it’s okay to talk about your quirks.

Insult them

This one also goes without saying but it’s important to keep in mind that you might not notice your insulting someone. This means that if the person doesn’t pronounce something on the menu or says something not so smart you don’t make a bit deal about it. At this point you don’t know what makes the person tick so making a big deal or joking about them is off the table. Some people get insulted by things that you may not, it’s important to take note of this and be careful, that way you don’t hurt their feelings on accident.

This is possibly one of the most important and sometimes people forget to mention this one.

But you should never talk about your previous relationships. While you may feel like you are simply explaining why you are dating new people you date might see it as your not completely over your ex.

Dating is extremely hard if you are not used to it, so it’s important to know a bit about what you should say and shouldn’t say, you don’t want to give off the wrong impression so that is why we wrote out 6 things not to talk about on your first date. Wait until you actually know the person well before jumping into these conversations. What’s  More important than anything on this list though is that you have fun and don’t be anyone who is not you. If you feel like talking about your future kids is just how you are it’s better for the person to be scared and run away than stuck with someone who was someone on the first date but someone else on the fifth.

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