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How to Talk to Girls- Reasons for Being Single

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Every guy needs to know how to talk to girls. Are you single and are you wondering why this might be? Don’t despair – there could be several reasons for this and all of them are probably good ones!

Perhaps you have been single for a while now and people have begun asking you why you don’t start entering the dating scene again. Yes, the pressure to do so can be intense, especially when it comes from well-meaning family and friends who just want to see you happy. But would you really be happy dating just yet?

Perhaps you’ve had plenty opportunity over the past while to date but have simply not met the right person. You are perfectly right there – it is never a good idea to date someone simply for the sake of being in a relationship. You should never settle for anything but the very best for yourself: you’d be doing yourself, as well as your partner a great disservice.

If you’re still hurt from a past relationship (no, we don’t mean one from many years’ ago, but a recent one!), take your time and allow yourself time to heal. Rebound relationships are recipes for disaster and will cause you more damage in the long run.

The single life can be a busy life, too. If your schedule doesn’t allow for a meaningful dating relationship, that’s okay! There comes a time in everyone’s life when they have other priorities, such as their careers or children. If your job keeps you busy fourteen hours per day, including weekends, it may not be the best time (or fair) to pursue a dating relationship with someone.

At times, we need to focus on ourselves, grow as people and learn to love ourselves before we can love others. If you find yourself in this space, do not feel ashamed to admit that you need some time out from the dating scene to work on yourself. This will definitely benefit your future relationships in the long run.

If you have a penchant for travel, the single life is perfect. Fulfilling all the travel destinations on your bucket list, whenever you want to, is so much easier when you are single. What’s better is that you do not have to justify the expense or the time away to anyone!

Being single need not be something to be embarrassed about or something that needs to be changed. If you are happy with your status quo, leave it as it is and be happy in your skin.

Many people have the incorrect perception that if you’re single, you’re unhappy. This is an extremely outdated and prejudiced perception which puts all single people in a box. Single people today enjoy loads of freedom, independence and self-discovery. Many single people are today amongst society’s happiest people. Never be ashamed of single status – wear it with pride


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