A famous soccer coach once said, ‘the greatest barrier to success is the fear to failure.’ This insightful quotation can really apply to the world of dating. The fear of rejection can often play mind games on you when trying to meet someone new (or even on the first few dates). This is powerful relationship advice. Although confidence is not the only factor in a successful date, it is one of the most important factors to your quest for love. Let’s face it, confidence is sexy. Confidence inspires us. Confidence is what tells someone that you’re the kind of person they should be with. After all, if you don’t even believe in yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? You find a lot of information and advice about this on many blogs, articles, free dating sites and even possible from your own experiences.
Dating experts say that confidence is the key to feeling relaxed and attractive. It’s that fun, relaxed, “I believe in myself” attitude that will make you irresistible to the opposite sex. A recent survey found that women tend to be much more confident than men in dating situations. Women feel less nervous and speak out frankly, while men often suffer from a lack of confidence. Some people speculate that this could be an evolutionary response designed to protect. Thousands of years ago when humans lived in more primitive tribal situations there may only have been a couple of single women available in the tribe. So you had to be sure not to screw it up with them or you may never have the opportunity to reproduce. This may also be why confidence is also so attractive to people in general. Remember that being confident and believing in yourself will dramatically increase your chance of getting the attention of that special someone.
Physiologists tell us that generally men do not talk nearly as much as women. Men tend to be more visual and it is the woman who often does most of the talking. However, in order to boost your confidence, you must talk more. Not just when you’re on date or see a women you like. Practice talking to people all the time. In line at the grocery store, at work, at the gym, wherever. Then when you do see someone who catches your eye, you’ll feel comfortable starting a conversation with them.
But what to say? Ask open ended questions and come straight to the point. When the girl sees that you’re a confident person, she will feel secured and attracted to you. She may even start thinking about taking the relationship to the next level. If you’re not good at talking to strangers, try signing up for a free dating site.This is a safe and easy way to practice talking to new people. You will find many local singles in your area who are are also looking to meet new people.